by Kristin Nador/@KristinNador
It’s 12-12-12, so in honor of strange happenings on unusual dates, let’s talk science fiction. Time travel to be specific. What if time travel was a reality?
Have you seen the movie Looper?
It’s an intriguing sci-fi story that explores the consequences of technology in the wrong hands. I also enjoyed all the actors in this film: Bruce Willis, Joseph Gordon-Levitt and especially Emily Blunt.
Although it has the common dystopian futuristic themes: a dark world full of bloody violence, wanton sex and drug use (oh wait, is that the future?) as well as a time travel element, the second half of the movie is not quite what you expect out of this type of film.
This movie makes you think. It makes you think about how children can be pushed down a path they didn’t have to go but for the decisions and actions of their parents. How important parents are in their children’s lives. How people can change and time changes them, and that the future is never set.
Future Joe goes through a lot to try and warn Present Joe about where his path is leading and how they will both pay for it in the end. I won’t spoil it for you, but if you can stomach bloody violence, foul language and a smidge of unnecessary nudity, it’s an intense story.
What it got me thinking about was what I would change about my past if I could, and if I could warn young me about the future, what I would say.
I would say:
Hey Younger Kristin,
Don’t waste your time, energy and self-worth trying to get the people who should accept you the most to accept you, because they can’t accept themselves. It’s not in them to accept you and love you like they should and that’s not your fault.
Keep reading everything you can get your hands on and keep learning. You are not a failure.
Trust your gut.
You look terrible in those purple dance tights and gray legwarmers. Just sayin.
Dentists aren’t all evil so let them look at your teeth.
You’re going to live past 25 so stop treating your body so badly.
Guys who always ask you for money, won’t introduce you to their friends, and tell you what ugly knees you have are guys that will never care about you, do matter how much they SAY they do.
This baby WILL grow up and do great things for God.
Life is hard just keep going because it gets better.
Money makes things easier but really doesn’t make things right.
Listen to older people. They know some good stuff even if they speak slowly.
He’s the best thing that will ever happen to you and you can trust him so say yes.
The financial adviser is an idiot. Buy the Apple stock.
Ms. Sweet is right. Keep writing.
Friends are family you choose for yourself. Choose well.
All the things you think are so important really aren’t. Important moments are like flowers that bloom, whither and the petals blow away in the wind. You will miss them if you blink. Be present.
Take more photos.
Older and Maybe Wiser (but mostly heavier) Kristin
I don’t think I would really change anything about my life because if I didn’t go through the things I did, I wouldn’t be the person I am, I wouldn’t have the strength I have. But maybe I would let myself get prepared. As in ‘Hey, some crap is going to hit the fan tomorrow, prepare yourself ‘.
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What message(s) would you send to your younger self from your future self if you could? Share in the comments or if you’re inspired write a blog post and share a link.